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Jul 2024
43m 35s

When Guilt Destroys Our Sanity

Dr. Shefali / Maia Wisdom
About this episode

Guilt is one of the most common parental emotions. It can eat us from the inside and tear us apart. It leads us to have poor boundaries and poor presence. In this episode, Dr. Shefali helps parents understand the root of their guilt and how to overcome it.


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