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Jun 2024
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2222: The Manipulative Child: How to Reg...

Optimal Living Daily | Greg Audino
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Episode 2222:

Adina Soclof's insights on managing a child's so-called manipulative behavior emphasize understanding their perspective and setting empathetic limits. By recognizing children's developmental stages and staying firm yet compassionate, parents can create a more harmonious home environment.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://parentingsimply.com/the-manipulative-child-how-to-regain-control/ & https://parentingsimply.com/summertime-madness-how-to-manage-misbehavior/

Quotes to ponder:

"My child really wants that toy. He is using everything in his power to try to get that toy. He is really working hard at that!"

"You really want that toy. It looks like so much fun. We won’t be buying any toys today."

"Once you’ve acknowledged your child’s very real desire for whatever it is he wants, give yourself permission to say 'NO' to them."

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