#153. Note to Self is wholly rooted in guilt-free self-love and self-indulgence. Practicing the art of self love can look different for everyone, but today we’re getting specific about using our love languages to reconnect with ourselves. Whether you’re a quality time, acts of service, physical touch, gift-giving, or words-of-affirmation girly, this episode ... Show More
Oct 15
The Q4 Agenda: 20 Things to Do Before 2027
#268. Before I go on podcast-sabbatical, I’m leaving you with an assignment: your Q4 agenda.This isn’t a winter arc, a life reset, or a list of impossible habits to master before January; it’s 20 worthwhile things to do with the last few months of the year. Think: getting your mo ... Show More
55m 7s
Oct 8
3 Perspectives Making My Life Significantly Better Right Now
#267. This week, we’re talking about three ideas making my life materially better (none of them are for sale). Satisficing, raising my uncertainty threshold, and creating as a response to over-thinking. BTW– next week’s episode is my last episode before a fall break! FOLLOW PAYTO ... Show More
51m 14s
Oct 1
ASK P: breakups, post-college life, & virginity talk
#266. In this installment of ASK P, we’re hearing from listeners about surprise breakups, pending breakups, adapting to life post-college, and losing your virginity in your 20s. This is the last ASK P of 2026 — be back in 2027! FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonross https ... Show More
1 h
Feb 2025
Self-Love
In this episode, we explain the true meaning of self-love—what it is, why it matters, and how to cultivate it daily. Whether you're single or in a relationship, self-love is the foundation for confidence, healthy boundaries, and emotional well-being. I’ll be sharing personal insi ... Show More
50 m
Feb 2023
50: How to Date Yourself - Self Love, Past Relationships, Self Worth, Love Languages and Ways to Love Yourself
With February being the month of love, this episode is a reminder to show yourself love before giving it away to someone else. We're all so quick to pour our time and energy into others and make sure they feel loved, while neglecting the person who deserves it the most.....oursel ... Show More
42m 52s
Feb 2024
How to have Self Compassion & Self Love
In this week's episode of Transform, the Samis dive into the theme of harnessing self-compassion and self-love—an ongoing practice for both hosts. Kicking off with a self-love affirmation, they share personal reflections on their journeys, highlighting the importance of extending ... Show More
42m 9s
Aug 2021
#162: On Loving Yourself: Solo Episode
Themes: Values, Relationship to self, Boundaries, Self-love Join me on this gentle invitation to think about how you love and relate to your own self. What do you value? What do you hold sacred when venturing outside of yourself to love another? If self-love is ultimately about t ... Show More
17m 52s
Sep 2021
Learning To Love Yourself
Valuing and caring for our own needs, wants, and desires is critical to our mental health and happiness. If we struggle to love ourselves and take care of ourselves, how do we deliver value to the rest of the world? In this episode, I discuss four actionable ways to love yourself ... Show More
18m 43s