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Jun 2024
48m 44s

Ep 77: Being a Kingmaker, Feminine range...

Meg and Jacob O'Neill
About this episode

What does it take to be a Kingmaker? 

Madelyn Moon and Meg O'Neill explore the powerful role of the feminine in relationships, showing how you can uplift your partner and become a true Kingmaker.

Madelyn Moon, a leading voice in feminine-masculine relationships, is dedicated to empowering women to liberate their expressive, artistic hearts in relationships and beyond. Her work and story have been featured in numerous podcasts and publications including BBC, Huffington Post, Teen Vogue, and more. As the host of the top-ranked podcast, The Madelyn Moon Show, and author of the best-selling book on conscious intimacy, Artist of Love, Madelyn brings a wealth of experience and insight to the conversation.

A Kingmaker helps their partner feel strong, respected, and empowered. Madelyn explains how to embrace your full feminine range, avoid actions that might emasculate your partner, and foster mutual growth.

The episode delves into shadow work—embracing hidden parts of yourself to unlock freedom and joy. Meg shares her role as a vision holder in her relationship, leading with integrity and care.

Good communication is essential. Madelyn emphasizes asking your partner directly how they feel to ensure mutual respect and value.

They also riff off on: 

  • Madelyn Moon integrates humor and creativity into her teaching, emphasizing the integration of all aspects of oneself for personal growth and healthy relationships.
  • Embracing shadow work to access hidden parts of oneself and achieve personal freedom.
  • Exploring primal desires and energies as a pathway to intimacy and connection in relationships.
  • The concept of "kingmaker" versus "king breaker" dynamics in relationships, avoiding subtle forms of emasculation.
  • Importance of owning and integrating all aspects of oneself, including those seen as negative, for personal growth and deeper connections.
  • Embracing feminine leadership and expanding emotional expression in relationships.
  • Cultivating radiance and body awareness through feminine expression and somatic practices.
  • Discussing the impact of emasculation on relationships and the importance of radical attunement instead of punishment.
  • Refining emotional expression and receiving feedback from partners to deepen understanding and connection.
  • Madelyn Moon's emphasis on feminine consciousness and integrity in relationships, encouraging speaking one's truth and trusting in positive actions.

and many more.

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