Scott returns! His poly and BDSM experiences have led him to explore deeper levels of self-care and connection in a new chapter of academia.
00:00 Unexpected depth of a kitchen table poly relationship and handling reintegration after deployments.
08:32 Applying BDSM scene negotiation techniques for comfort, cuddling, and receiving care as a Dom.
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Mar 20
Sheri’s Ranch Broke Up With Me
Sheri’s Ranch broke up with me—what now?⏰ TIME CODE00:00 The Update: processing the news, hope vs. expectation, and emotional complexities06:50 Reflections on this chapter10:18 Losing community, proximity-based connection, and what actually hurts most 14:36 Client relationships, ... Show More
1h 35m
Mar 17
338 | Spoiled Selfish Shame-Free Submissive: Tonya’s Sex Stories
Dirty talk orgasms, clit injuries, and an open consent policy—Tonya shares how safety, curiosity, and communication shaped her evolving erotic life.🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!ÜBERLUBE: the BEST personal lubricantLORALS: FDA-clear ... Show More
1h 47m
Mar 10
337 | Life Is Short, Have An Affair: Paul Keable & Ashley Madison
Infidelity myths, sexless marriages, and compassionate affairs—Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer of Ashley Madison, shares what actually drives people to seek affairs, why many women cheat for better sex, and how secrecy, vulnerability, and unmet needs shape modern relationship ... Show More
1h 13m
Apr 2025
EP436 - How to Have a Sex Party
Welcome to Episode 436 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, co-founders of the Somatica Institute, who speak to me about sex parties. In this episode, we discuss the evolving landscape of sexual exploration, intentio ... Show More
33m 34s
Jun 2025
When Sex Feels Like a Chore: Reclaiming Pleasure and Connection
In this episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily teams up with Dr. Scott Lyons, a licensed holistic psychologist and trauma expert, to tackle one of the most common relationship challenges: when sex starts feeling like just another item on your to-do list. From exploring ... Show More
34m 38s
Mar 2025
Initiating Sex After a Dry Spell
Initiating sex, dry spells, and mismatched libidos: the Hotline Calls are open, and your sex questions are answered! Today’s sexual concerns are especially relatable: I’m willing to bet you’ve experienced one of these yourself. Let’s start with orgasms. When you can only get off ... Show More
31m 6s