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Jun 2024
59m 4s

Deep Casual Intimacy: Scott’s Update

Wyoh Lee
About this episode

Scott returns! His poly and BDSM experiences have led him to explore deeper levels of self-care and connection in a new chapter of academia.

00:00 Unexpected depth of a kitchen table poly relationship and handling reintegration after deployments.

08:32 Applying BDSM scene negotiation techniques for comfort, cuddling, and receiving care as a Dom.

16:34 The importance of desire, self-advocacy, asking for what you need, and investing time in exploring receptive anal. 
26:29 How discovering himself while having multiple long-term partnerships led to a transition—blowing up his relationship *on purpose.*

32:17 Experiencing casual dating for the first time in adulthood: dating apps vs. meeting people irl, plus wanting to curate romantic experiences for prospective partners.

39:43 How self-care and discovering personal needs goes hand-in-hand with nurturing others.

42:02 How kinksters are better at communication, everyone is kinky, and a dating experiment.

50:11 Exploring poly desires, deep casual intimacy, and changing needs.


 

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