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Jun 2024
28m 52s

Ep. 210: Process > Result

Mary Jelkovsky
About this episode

What would you pursue regardless of the result? Let’s reflect on how being results-oriented removes the joy of the process. Though sometimes results do come, maybe we’d be happier if we were more immersed in the process itself.

You will learn how to...

  • Trust your unique process and let go of the need for immediate results
  • Embrace activities that bring joy without a focus on outcome
  • Shift your mindset to find peace in the present moment

Remember: ”Trust your process, release the result.”

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