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May 2024
19m 32s

How to Communicate With Someone Who Has ...

Jessica Da Silva, LMFT
About this episode
Communication is important because it meets fundamental emotional needs that are at the root of our challenges. In this episode, you will learn what these emotional needs are for the dismissive avoidant attachment style, how to address them, and helpful tips for effective communication. ——— 1-1 Attachment Coaching: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com 
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