logo
episode-header-image
May 2024
26m 36s

Why Being Mad About A Wasted Relationshi...

BETCHES MEDIA
About this episode
J&J are jumping right into this week’s Sunday Special, kicking off with an “Icky or Picky?” about a delayed Hinge response. Our listener’s match explained that he took so long to get back to her because he only likes to focus on one match at a time, but she can’t decide if it’s unfair of her to be put off or if that was indeed too much too soon. Then, they g ... Show More
Up next
Jul 8
How to Date Someone Who Takes Sports Personally
Jared and Jordana debate whether dating a diehard Philly’s sports fan is a harmless quirk or a real relationship problem. Can passion be just plain obnoxious? They also unpack the internet debate over women proposing to men, why Taylor Swift rumors about an MSG wedding sparked su ... Show More
1h 32m
Jul 3
Is Fourth Of July The Best Weekend To Meet Someone?
Jared and Jordana are getting ready for Fourth of July weekend, where Jared will be staying with Jordana, finally! Then Jared shares the funniest wedding guest he's ever met, a guy with Oakleys on the back of his head who somehow became the life of someone else's wedding. Plus, t ... Show More
49m 45s
Jul 1
Should Married People Reply To Exes?
Jared is back from his book tour convinced dating is rougher than ever, and he and Jordana break down why so many singles are feeling burnt out. Then they tackle whether asking for someone's Instagram or Snapchat before a first date is a hookup red flag, if you should reply when ... Show More
1h 28m
Recommended Episodes
May 2022
How To Stop Sabotaging Your Own Relationship Success
Jordana and Naomi are back for week two of the podcast and start things off with a convo about one of the most common sources of aggravation we all share: customer service. Why does the person on the other end of the phone get under our skin so often? Then they tackle the equally ... Show More
1h 14m
Jun 2020
Why Take Me On A Date If You Just Want To F*ck Me?
Abby and Taylor are back for another week of trying to figure out what the f*ck is going on with their dating lives. With no conclusion in sight, they ask why guys would want to take you on a real date if all they want is to hook up, then read this week’s listener email. It hits ... Show More
50m 35s
Oct 2017
Are You a Crazy Girlfriend?
<p>This week's podcast is the story of a woman who met a very eligible bachelor who was very into her but proceeded to ruin the relationship with her insecurity and anger.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia provides commentary throughout the reading of the email to point out where ... Show More
28m 32s
Nov 2025
The Girl I Dated Put Something in My Drink . . .
On today’s episode, we hear about: A man grappling with the realization that his date took advantage of him A woman trying to move forward after her affair A mom struggling to co-parent with her ex Next Steps: 📞 Ask John a question! Call 844-693-3291 or send us a message. 📚 Bui ... Show More
1h 2m
Apr 2024
My Girlfriend Keeps Testing Me
On this episode, we hear about: -       A man floundering in a messy dating relationship -       A woman wondering how to “break up” with a friend -       A wife who feels totally disconnected from her husband Next Steps  📞 Ask John a question! Call 844-693-3291 or click here. ... Show More
59m 5s
Sep 2022
S2: Break Down Bonus: Coworker Justin gives his best 'moving on' advice, talks when NOT to get closure, & reacts to S2E9
Do you need help moving on from an ex? Do you feel like you still need closure? Abby and Justin talk about why it's so hard to get over them (and tell you what to do about it). Plus they react to this week's main episode and share stories about families/friends ruining their rela ... Show More
16m 8s
Nov 2025
SHE PULLED A WHAT ON HIM MID HOOKUP?!?!
On today's Not Loveline it's all about healing, growing, maturing, and learning how to love yourself. And of course if it's crazy or not to pull a...weapon...on a guy mid hookup if he has been spreading rumors about you! Tana and Trish are ready to answer your calls and help you ... Show More
1h 16m
Oct 2025
Why Can't They Just Get Over It
This episode looks at why your partner might struggle to “just get over” something that feels small to you. Often, their reaction isn’t really about the forgotten text or missed plan—it’s about old wounds from times they felt invisible or unimportant. Instead of brushing it off, ... Show More
55m 42s
Feb 2020
The First Date Debate
Dean and Jared are solving your dating conundrums. Are first dates actually fun or just awkward and painful?  How do you deal with a guy that is constantly sending mixed signals? What’s the best way to handle a love affair at the office?Sucking it up and sucking less, we are Solv ... Show More
57m 57s