On this episode, we hear about:
- A man floundering in a messy dating relationship
- A woman wondering how to “break up” with a friend
- A wife who feels totally disconnected from her husband
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Jul 2024
Solving Listener Dating Scenarios — Part 2
We're back with more listener scenarios and ladies... I can't believe some of the things you are going through! Let's break down guys making excuses for us not to meet their friends, staging coincidental "run-ins", living with someone before marriage, what you have to do to bag t ... Show More
47m 52s
May 2022
#8: Q&A: On All Things Love & Relationships
<p>In this week's Q&A episode, we're exploring a mixed bag of love & relationship questions. Topics include how to navigate conflict with a partner who won't engage, how to manage your anxiety when physically apart from your partner, why you might be attrac ... Show More
25m 2s
Sep 2025
Sh*t You Wouldn’t Ask Your Therapist | Love Is Messy. Here’s The Truth.
In today’s episode, John Kim answers your most vulnerable questions about relationships - from surviving infidelity and messy breakups, to knowing when it’s time to try again (or walk away), to managing jealousy, triggers, and control. Raw, honest, and unfiltered — this is the co ... Show More
22m 23s
Nov 2023
Is Caspering The New Ghosting? (Debating This Year’s Spookiest New Dating Terms)
It's Halloween, so Jordana came ready to get messy while Jared showed up buzzed–but not in the way you’d think! First, J&J kick off with a pop quiz on spooky season dating terms. Then, a listener asks how he can get his long-distance girlfriend to communicate more. J&J discuss wh ... Show More
1h 21m