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May 2024
23m 45s

Can identity exist without labels?

JAMES BARR AND DAN HUDSON
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James and Dan use a previous listener dilemma as a starting point for a wider discussion around labels and identity. They also answer the question of why gays and lesbians don't get along. Listen back to the chat with Helen Scott here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices 
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