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Feb 2023
45m 22s

Top? Bottom? Balancing Masculinity & Fem...

GrownKid
About this episode
Do you despise your own femininity? Lean towards masculinity even if it's not you? In this episode, we talk about our own struggles with our sexuality, the labels inside the community, and learning to grow into our true selves. Enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices 
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