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May 2024
47m 12s

How to Build Trust and Collaboration in ...

Kwame Christian Esq., M.A.
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In this insightful episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes Simon Dowling, a seasoned facilitator and former lawyer from Melbourne, Australia, who brings a wealth of knowledge on collaborative communication and leadership in negotiation. Simon shares effective strategies for building trust and creating a conducive environment for collaborative negotiation efforts. He emphasizes the importance of separating people from problems and employing conversational leadership rather than control tactics. The episode is packed with real-world anecdotes, practical insights, and valuable resources for anyone looking to enhance their negotiation skills.

What will be covered:

- The impact of conversational leadership in negotiation settings.

- Strategies for building trust and preparing the groundwork for effective collaboration.

- Practical tips from Simon Dowling on managing impatience and fear during negotiations.

What listeners will learn:

- How to separate people from problems to enhance understanding and outcomes.

- The significance of patience and curiosity in transforming negotiation dynamics.

- Ways to embrace and manage tensions in negotiations for better decision-making and results.


Connect with Simon

Follow Simon on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/simondowling-aus/

https://www.simondowling.com.au/

Buy the book "Work with Me : How to get people to buy into your ideas" https://www.booktopia.com.au/work-with-me-simon-dowling/book/9780730330059.html


Contact ANI

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