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May 2024

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2169: Five Reasons We Talk “At” Each Oth...

Optimal Living Daily | Greg Audino

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Episode 2169:

Explore practical ways to improve communication with your partner with Dr. Margaret Rutherford's enlightening insights in "Five Reasons We Talk 'At' Each Other And How To Listen." Discover how to break free from common listening barriers and foster a deeper connection through effective communication techniques. Learn from the experiences of couples like Jim and Rebecca who transformed their relationship by mastering the art of listening.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/five-reasons-we-talk-at-each-other-and-how-to-listen/

Quotes to ponder:

"It's easy to assume you know what your partner is going to say. Instead stay curious."

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