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May 2024
21m 57s

6 Tips for Self-Regulation

Albiona Rakipi
About this episode
In this solo episode I’m talking all about self regulation and how to help kids self regulate. Self regulation is all about how to get your child to calm down when they aren’t calm. Essentially, how can we help our kids gain the ability to understand that a. They’re going to be ok, b. The outcome will likely be the same, and c. They are safe. I have six tips ... Show More
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