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Apr 2024
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CHEEXY Chats | To Cum Or Not To Cum

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Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee chatting freely about diverse topics connected to S*x & Relationships and our second episode is all about the 0rgasm! We chat about pleasure, masturbating, the 0rgasm-Gap, the relation between the patriarchy and the 0rgasms of vulva-owners and how to take up space and to take your time for your pleasure. We also broach topics like reconnecting with your body after abusive experiences, the different ways of performing pressure around the whole topic of 0rgasms for various types of genders and how wonderful 0rgasms are but how they are not always necessary for having a good time.

What do waterslides and sxt0ys have in common? How do we loosen up the 3-Acts-Movie-like scripts of our sxlifes and transform performance into shared experiences? How do we chill out a bit when it comes to 0rgasms and see them less as a task and more as a fun part of an experience? Check out our 2nd Episode of CHEEXY Chats and become a part of our little community!

As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats

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