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Feb 2020
7m 44s

Should You Trick Your Ex Into Contacting...

LUCIA
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Is there a way to make your ex reach out to you? If so, should you do it or wait for them to contact you when they're ready? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why trying to get your ex to reach out to you often backfires.

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