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Apr 2024
1h 31m

How to Have a 5-Day Sex Date

Kim Anami
About this episode

Well-F**ked All Stars Jeff and Jen have been married for 30 years. 

They found my work last year and have been on an Anami pilgrimage ever since! 

They also happen to be endurance athletes. When they heard my philosophy of multi-hour and multi-day sex dates, it was game on!

You’ll hear them share their story of turning around their relationship of three decades, how they become ultra-sex marathoners and what a 5-day sex date looks like.

In this episode: 

  • What’s a typical day on a 5-day sex date? 
  • Sex as an extreme sport 
  • Secrets of slow sex 
  • Orgasm without ejaculation and semen retention 
  • 100 orgasms in one session 
  • Owning being the hottest woman in the room
  • Overcoming the Madonna/whore dichotomy 
  • Reaching age 50 and starting over sexually 

Jeff and Jen kicked off their Anami Land journey with the Coming Together for Couples Salon last year, which is now open for registration. 

This is my 10-week online signature program for creating conscious relationships and gourmet sex.

You’ll learn: 

  • How to have full-body and energy orgasms
  • Building Supercock male stamina so he can last for hours
  • How to achieve the deeper, life-changing vaginal orgasms for women: G-Spot and cervical
  • Sexual reflexology of the genitals
  • Tantra 101
  • Full guided tutorials on yoni and lingam massage
  • My prescriptions for healing using sexual positions
  • Busting out of the buddy rut to create sizzling chemistry 
  • And much more!

Signup now!

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