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Jul 4
1h 2m

Honesty: the New Lube

Kim Anami
About this episode

“An increase in wetness to tsunami proportions.” ~ Joanne

“Now all I have to do is talk to him on the phone and I’m dripping to my knees.” ~ 61-year-old Michelle
“I am constantly aroused and wet. I love my juices and can have an orgasm without touching myself.” ~ Tia

How do you like them tsunamis? 


This is the normal state of vaginas for EVERY woman. 


One of the Anami cardinal rules is: No Lube for Women. Because all women, at EVERY stage of their lives, are capable of producing their own natural lubrication.


In this episode: 

  • The only physical reason why you may not be wet 
  • Is lube really a girl’s best friend? 
  • Connection + flow = wetness
  • How long can you go without sex before it impacts your relationship?
  • Are you surrendering or sabotaging?
  • Can you pick your vagina out of a lineup?
  • Loving your man’s cock into growing bigger
  • “What makes a woman irresistible? Self-love.”
  • The newest and best beauty injectable 

My legendary WFW salon is open for registration NOW!


In this 10-week online and in-your-bed immersion I've compiled the best of my 30 years of orgasmic experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss.

You'll learn:

- Step-by-step instructions for the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirting

- How to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portals

- Self-pleasuring 101 and how to channel sexual energy into creative genius
- Natural lubrication from the inside out 

- Using your feminine essence to build a life of flow, ease and pleasure

- Breast massage to tone, lift and activate the orgasmic potential of the breasts

- How to give your man enlightened blow jobs and hand jobs

Signup at kimanami.com/wet 

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