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Apr 2024

1h 33m

20. dating with limerence + what to do

Danielle Walter

About this episode

lim·er·ence:

noun PSYCHOLOGY

noun: limerence; plural noun: limerences

the state of being infatuated or obsessed with another person, typically experienced involuntarily and characterized by a strong desire for reciprocation of one's feelings but not primarily for a sexual relationship.

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In this episode, we break down what Limerence is, why it exists, how it manifests, and how we deal with it. We'll go beyond just surface level definitions and ideologies and get real with testimonies + practical tips that you can apply to your life & behaviors right now.

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