This week, Jeff and his guest co-host Amanda Feaver, LPC, dive into a relatable topic: feeling insecure in a new relationship. Their caller opens up about her struggle to find a balance between wanting to ask for more and fearing she might scare this new guy off by being too “needy.” Jeff and Amanda provide insightful advice on how to communicate your needs ... Show More
Mar 24
Angry Passionate Question, Preferable Ethical AI & Everyone Hates Long Lines
What do you call someone with blue nails and a penis? A delightfully real caller suggests "Jeff" is the answer to that question. But we have a few things to say in response. In true Problem Solved fashion we keep it blunt, real, and hit the truth where it hurts, right in nutz. We ... Show More
1h 7m
Mar 17
I Slept With My Boss, Therapists Analyzing Dreams & Solving Problems
I slept with my boss, and want to make love to an employee! Do the things we dream contain any truth? Dreams may be weird and wacky, but there must be meaning to them surely! Jeff and Alex certainly think there is plenty to gain from unboxing your dreams and finding hidden meanin ... Show More
1h 12m
Mar 10
Lacking Attraction, Dry Male Orgasms, Keeping Hope Alive When Dating
Firstly, is Mr. Brightside a sport song? Great to have you back listeners. We're loving the comments and feedback, and we're also loving the little army of Problemistas we're growing here. So this week, what do you do when you don't want to bang your partner anymore? Not all men ... Show More
1h 9m
Aug 2024
Trauma Bonds, Red Flags, & Toxic Relationships with Dr. Ally
If you are questioning your relationship or wondering why you are putting up with sh*t that doesn’t serve you, then bestie - this one was made just for you! This week we’re joined by Relationship and Mental Health Expert, Dr. Ally as she discusses what makes a relationship toxic, ... Show More
56m 6s
Aug 2022
EP01: Dating as an Adult, Creating Love, & Navigating Narcissism
Sarah Rice, AMFT and Jeff Guenther, LPC are here with the first official episode of This Changes Everything! They're talking about dating as adults and the ways that creating love for other people comes from inside you. Sarah breaks down the ways that an identity crisis sent her ... Show More
49m 55s
May 2023
EP36: Therapy Anxiety, Queer Platonic Affection, and Making Eye Contact
<p>Sarah Rice and Therapy Jeff are back and answering all of your questions! This week, we’re covering a little bit of everything. From feeling anxiety about seeing a new therapist FOR anxiety, to feeling uncomfortable if your queer partner is being affectionate with their friend ... Show More
1h 9m
<p>Data-driven, dharma-informed, Dan-tested strategies for improving relationships of all kinds. </p> <p><strong>In this episode we talk about:</strong></p> <ul> <li>The value of having platonic friends in addition to your spouse or partner</li> <li>A key communication skill that ... Show More