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Apr 2024
34m 30s

Pay Attention to How People Affect Your ...

Sophia Panella
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Something is in the air this week and I feel like I have to share this advice with you all - pay attention to how certain individuals or friend groups affect your energy. I encourage you to get in-tune with your energetic side and really assess how you FEEL after you hang out with certain people. I also will give you some more advice on friendships and my attitude towards new friendships now! 

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