Zach and Laura chat with author Matt Fray https://matthewfray.com/ about his book This is How Your Marriage Ends https://matthewfray.com/order-book/. Matt's wisdom was hard-earned after a divorce that forced him to look deeply at the skills and habits he lacked in his marriage.
You will end this episode with insights that will improve your relationship.
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Nov 18
Ep 399 Session 3 | Ten Days at a Time
In their third session, Zach shifts focus from reparenting the self to rebuilding trust, compassion, and connection in real time.
The couple begins by reflecting on the chaos of parenting two neurodivergent children and how exhaustion, overwhelm, and constant caregiving have res ... Show More
1h 2m
Nov 11
Ep 398 Session 2 | Get Over Yourself (and Into Us)
In part two of this couple's therapeutic conversation, they deepen their work from surface struggles into childhood roots, body awareness, and self-recovery. The wife describes crashing after the previous session, discovering that missed medication and hormonal shifts had amplifi ... Show More
49m 20s
Nov 4
Ep 397 Session 1 | A Peek in the Therapeutic Process
In this experimental therapy-format episode, Zach meets with a couple, 16 years into marriage, parenting two adopted, neurodivergent kids, and living abroad, to model what real therapeutic work sounds like. The wife names “the mother machine” as the force grinding her down: menop ... Show More
1h 6m
Mar 2022
#198: This is How Relationships End with Matthew Fray
Themes: Marriage, Relationships, Commitment, Divorce, Trust, Intimacy
Summary:
One night during his divorce, Matthew Fray started a blog. He needed to figure out how his ex-wife went from the 18 year old college freshman who adored him to the angry woman who thought he was a je ... Show More
1h 22m
Mar 2024
#757 - James Sexton - A Divorce Lawyer’s Perspective On Love & Marriage
James Sexton is a divorce attorney and author, known for his expertise in family law.
There are speakers, leaders, and coaches that offer guidance on living and maintaining happy relationships. However, it’s rare to find those who advocate for the opposite perspective. Is there e ... Show More
1h 14m