Is being overly controlling a form of abuse? In this podcast episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the subtleties of coercive control. Learn how to recognize the common control tactic of this insidious form of abuse. And this week's self-help tip is to assess how your partner's feelings and demands affect you. Are you doing less and becoming increasingly ... Show More
Jun 8
Born into a Cult. Then Married a Narcissist. Is Coercive Control Stealing Your Life?
Were you born into a cult — or did you unknowingly marry one? If you've ever felt trapped, controlled, and unable to trust your own reality — whether in a religion, a family system, or a relationship — you may have been living inside a cult of two. Narcissistic abuse operates thr ... Show More
28m 49s
Feb 2023
Isolation and coercive control: are you in a controlling relationship?
In part one of my series on coercive control, I discuss the signs of a coercive or controlling relationship, specifically the ways controlling partners attempt to isolate you from the world.If you or someone you know may be in this type of relationship, please seek help. You can ... Show More
9m 26s
Dec 2024
Covert Narcissistic Mother: Classic Signs You'll Notice
<p>Has your mother ever ignored you as an attempt to punish you for challenging her or confronting her behavior? Have you ever felt like your mom was intentionally causing you emotional duress, possibly by causing you to feel indebted and obligated to her, despite her unhealthy, ... Show More
12m 19s
Feb 2023
S3: Break Down Bonus: How do I leave a manipulative relationship? w/ Vernique Esther, LMSW
[SCROLL FOR CW] -Have you ever felt manipulated by your partner? Did you try to break up with them, but they kept luring you back in? Abby brings on LMSW Vernique Esther to talk about how to recognize manipulation, set boundaries, and leave if necessary. -Check out Vernique Esthe ... Show More
26m 23s