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Mar 2024
35m 29s

Do You REALLY Know What You Want in a Pa...

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
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Everyone has an ideal partner checklist that might include attributes like "6 foot, 6 figures, 6 pack abs." But is this setting you up for failure in relationships? In today’s podcast, we discuss why there may be a striking contradiction between what you want and what you pursue. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attra ... Show More
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