May 2022

1h 12m

Why You Choose the Wrong Partner

About this episode

Is it too picky to want to date who shares similar qualities to you? And when should you be more open-minded about who you choose a relationship with?

Join Matt and Stephen to talk about pickiness, standards, and mindsets that can make finding love harder.

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