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Mar 2024
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#473 Accepting The World As It Is

DR. ROBERT PUFF, PH.D.
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Accepting The World As It Is

Accommodate your mind to the way the world works, not to the way you wish the world worked.

1. Acceptance of Reality: At its core, it emphasizes the importance of accepting the world as it is, rather than clinging to idealized expectations. Sometimes there's a gap between how we want things to be and how they actually are. This can lead to frustration and disappointment.

2. Adaptability: The statement suggests that by understanding how the world operates—its rules, systems, and limitations—we can adapt and position ourselves for greater success and inner peace. Stubbornly wishing for things to change without adjusting our approach can create resistance.

3. Pragmatism vs. Idealism: It hints at a balance between striving for positive change and working within the confines of the current reality. Idealistic visions are important catalysts for the future, but practical awareness of how the world functions is crucial for navigating the present.

4. Letting Go of Control: The phrase implies releasing our tight grip on wanting things to conform to our desires. While we can influence our surroundings to some extent, fixating on outcomes outside our control can lead to unnecessary distress.

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