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Mar 2024
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Why Your Instincts Are Misleading You in...

Shane Kohler
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This week's episode is a thought-provoking exploration into the complexities of human instincts and their influence on our experiences in love and relationships. In this eye-opening episode, we unravel the intricacies of why our instincts can sometimes lead us astray in matters of the heart.

In this episode, Shane deep dives into the roots of our instincts and how they often clash with the modern complexities of love and romance. From the allure of instant attraction to the pitfalls of toxic patterns, we examine how understanding and questioning our instincts can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Discover the importance of mindfulness, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence in navigating the complexities of modern love.

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