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Mar 2024
45m 11s

Improve Your Self-Worth | Author Jonatho...

Growth Mindset Psychology
About this episode

The essentials of improving self-worth for better relationships and the practices for self-love that pave the way to finding and keeping love.


Jonathon Aslay is known as America's leading mid-life relationships coach and is the author of "What the Heck is Self-Love Anyway?"


Jonathon sheds light on the importance of self-reflection in dating and how to become someone of worth to others. Learn:

  • the secrets to finding the right partner in modern dating
  • identifying deal-breakers in potential partners
  • the mindsets for lasting love and connection
  • how to cultivate a successful relationship mindset


This conversation is a treasure trove of advice for anyone looking to enhance their dating life and build healthy, meaningful relationships.


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Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create.


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Chapters:

  • 00:00 - Introduction
  • 01:23 - Background
  • 04:17 - What is self-love
  • 07:40 - Wake-up calls are a thing
  • 11:30 - Where humanity is being silly
  • 13:30 - the biggest problems in relationships
  • 17:03 - Notice self-defense
  • 20:00 - It's not what you do, it's how you do it
  • 24:11 - Non-violent communication
  • 28:40 - Read books together
  • 30:40 - Eight dates
  • 36:30 - Earliest memory
  • 38:00 - Kindest thing



Topics:

finding the right partner in modern dating

mistakes to avoid in searching for love

improving self-worth for better relationships

practices for self-love and partner love

Jonathan Aslay's approach to successful dating

keys to being a valuable partner in relationships

navigating the dating world with confidence

the mindset for lasting love and connection

identifying deal-breakers in potential partners

strategies for attracting the right person

the importance of self-reflection in dating

transforming your love life with expert advice

overcoming common dating pitfalls

building a foundation for healthy relationships

cultivating a successful relationship mindset

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