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Sep 2024
35m 41s

Before You Open Your Mouth: The Power Of...

PATRICK KING
About this episode

Learn the power of mindset in people skills before you open your mouth!

Discover the Clever Hans effect and its impact on communication and

perception.

Improve Your People Skills: How to Connect With Anyone, Communicate

Effectively, Develop Deep Relationships, and Become a People Person By

Patrick King


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00:00:00 Improve Your People Skills

00:05:10 Hanlon’s Razor And Assumptions.

00:13:52 The Curiosity Factor.

00:25:05 Walk A Mile For Empathy.

00:28:36 Let’s take Patricia Moore, for example.

00:31:34 It evokes the quote by Brad Meltzer


https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07XK7WBW2


Learn how to adapt, win people over, and handle just about any social situation.

Your

qualifications and intelligence aren’t what will move you forward in

life. People skills (soft skills, interpersonal skills, social skills,

and likability) are. They allow you to effortlessly glide through life

and roll with the punches, as well as maximize the situations you’ll

find yourself in. When your relationships are harmonious and authentic,

the whole world opens up.

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