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Mar 2024
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"Is It Acceptable To Steal Personality T...

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In today's episode, Dr. K analyses a post from a community member with concerns about their mimicking of personality traits. Join us as we discern the difference between personality and identity, and whether or not mimicking personality traits is a bad thing in the first place! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices 
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