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Feb 2024
30m 23s

"But there are no good guys out there"

Katie Bulmer
About this episode

As a mentor to young women I hear this saying a lot. I know what you mean, but let's unpack it and find some better phrases to use.

Previous podcast episodes I mention in this episode:

Why behind the wait

Having high standards vs being realistic

Why do bad things happen to good people

 

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