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Aug 2024
39m 46s

the dm that ruined it all

SHAMELESS MEDIA
About this episode

Hiiii shooshies!


Oh dear, today’s secret is a bit of a sticky one. Have you ever fallen for a friend's long-term partner? Hmmmm, we’d like to hope men and women can have healthy, platonic relationships!!! Andddd, we also hear from ya’ll, our gorgeous shooshie community - apparently, we all sound… blonde? And, bald. Soz, Louis. 


Big thanks to The Aromantiques for making this episode possible. Right now, The Aromantiques has a special deal going—$25 a bottle for a limited time if you sign up as a member. If you’re ready to elevate your wine game, head online and snag a bottle. And always remember to drink wise.


Got a secret to spill? Easy peasy! Head to everybodyhasasecret.com.au and submit it anonymously. This show is only as good as the secrets that are submitted, so keep ‘em coming!

Your hosts of ‘everybody has a secret’ are Annabelle Lee (@annabe11e1ee) and Louis Hanson (@louishanson).


This episode was produced by Ruby Hall and executive produced by Lucy Hunt.


Catch us on socials! @everybodyhasasecretpod on Instagram and @everybodyhasasecret on TikTok.


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We love ya guts for listening! See you next time.

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