logo
episode-header-image
Jun 2025
1h 12m

DUMP THAT TOXIC MAN! + ADVICE FOR FIGHTI...

Tana Mongeau and Trish Paytas
About this episode
On today's episode, Trisha and Tana speak from the heart to some very kind listeners who got vulnerable about their struggles. Like how do you stop overthinking everything? Or how do you let yourself fall in love despite your defenses being high? And how do you get yourself out of a domestic abuse situation? All that and more on today's episode of Not Loveli ... Show More
Up next
Nov 24
WHEN TO MOVE ON + REIGNITING SPARKS IN YOUR LOVE LIFE
Not Loveline is back again from NYC! This week, Trisha and Tana continue their discussion of their NY adventures. And also take some questions from all of you! This week, the girls advise on how to get that toxic man out of your head! And how to know when it's time to move on fro ... Show More
57m 21s
Nov 17
WE'RE MOVING TO NY!? + TANA MET ADAM SANDLER!
Welcome back to Not Loveline! Emphasis on the NOT this week as Trish and Tana are reunited after a few weeks apart in NEW YORK CITY! The girls catch up, talk about Trisha in Beetlejuice, and gush about their favorite parts of the most magical city on earth. And whether or not the ... Show More
56m 46s
Nov 10
SHE PULLED A WHAT ON HIM MID HOOKUP?!?!
On today's Not Loveline it's all about healing, growing, maturing, and learning how to love yourself. And of course if it's crazy or not to pull a...weapon...on a guy mid hookup if he has been spreading rumors about you! Tana and Trish are ready to answer your calls and help you ... Show More
1h 16m
Recommended Episodes
Oct 2022
#brunchtalk: How to handle your SO's flirty friend
<p>You&#39;re trying your best not to be the jealous type...but even the best of us can be triggered. On this week’s brunch talk we’re talking about how to not loose your shit when your partner&#39;s ex or just flirty friend comes around, how to maintain your confidence in your r ... Show More
25m 1s
Jan 2025
E866 Ask Nick - My Exclusive Non-Boyfriend w/ Mel Robbins
<p dir="ltr">Welcome back to a special episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick w/ Mel Robbins! </p> <p dir="ltr">What is Mel's "Let Them" theory and how can it improve your love, relationships, and life as a whole?</p> <p dir="ltr">Our first caller wants to confess her feelings for ... Show More
2h 43m
Oct 2024
The Escape: Part 1
Ashley saw Julian while scrolling on Tik Tok and was drawn to his cowboy vibes. Their relationship progressed quickly, but what started as love became something much more terrifying. Part 2 will be out on Monday 11/4!<br> <br> Content warnings - domestic violence, emotional abuse ... Show More
1h 11m
Dec 2023
Young Love: Part 2
Lauren continues her dogfish story, with a shocking ending! Make sure to stay till the end to hear more information on some of the conditions discussed in this episode. <br> <br> <a href="https://patreon.com/TheDatingDetectives?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&am ... Show More
1h 7m
Apr 2024
The LepreCON: Part 2
Jenny continues her fairytale story, but this Irishman is not what he seems! Make sure to go back and listen to part 1 before tuning into the insane second act of this story. <br> <br> <a href="https://patreon.com/TheDatingDetectives?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyL ... Show More
1h 28m
Oct 2024
93. Not for Fireworks + What to Say to Your Friend in a Toxic Relationship
<p>This episode is sponsored by Zocdoc. Go to <a href="https://www.zocdoc.com/notforeveryone/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠https://www.zocdoc.com/notforeveryone/⁠</a> to try it today. </p> <p>__</p> <p>This is an episode of complaints, and it starts out with a ... Show More
1h 10m
Oct 6
Help, I'm Having Doubts About My Partner!
It's just us this week and we're breaking down a listener email about the relatable crisis of having doubts about your long-term partner. We discuss so many aspects of relationships and marriages -- marrying young (and what IS the optimal age to say I Do), not growing in the same ... Show More
1h 19m
Feb 2025
The 'Let Them Theory' Will Change Your Relationships feat. Mel Robbins
<p>We are honored to be joined by Mel Robbins, author of the bestselling, life-changing book The Let Them Theory. We talk to her about the theory and how you can apply it to relationships, daily stress, career goals, and family conflicts to live a more free and authentic life. We ... Show More
1h 18m
Apr 2022
Life Wisdom From Grandma
In today's episode, we get life wisdom from Larray's Grandmother. The two discuss dating, when she realized Larray was gay, and we learn that Noah doesn't fart. For 65% off your first month of medication management and care counseling, go to https://www.cerebral.com/sock Go to Gr ... Show More
47m 54s
Jan 2025
The Funeral Freeloader
<p>In this emotional episode of <em>The Dating Detectives</em>, Mackenzie and Hanna welcome Liv, a guest whose story is as heartbreaking as it is harrowing. Liv opens up about the devastating loss of her partner Andrew, navigating grief while raising their daughter, and how her v ... Show More
1h 52m