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Feb 2024
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He's Not as Great as You Think: Stop F.I...

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
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The heart is a powerful force, relentlessly pursuing what it desires, often without our conscious realization. This pursuit can lead us to engage in a deceptive practice called F.I.B.ing—Filling In Blanks. In today’s podcast we discuss why he’s probably NOT as “perfect” as you think, and how to navigate the dating scene with clarity. NEXT STEP: Book a compli ... Show More
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