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Jan 2024
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How to Keep Their Interest After the Fir...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

It’s normal to want to put our best selves forward on a first date . . . but sometimes this makes us hide who we really are. And that’s a shame, because someone may not see the real version of us—the one they’d want to see again and again. So how do you create authentic attraction early on? What are the things you could do that would make someone excited for a second date with you?


In today’s new episode, I share 3 natural ways to get and keep someone’s interest on a first date and beyond. 


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