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Jul 2023
28m 52s

What TO DO on First Dates

Coffee and Cleavage
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Shantal, Lynnie and Gary are continuing their conversation from last week but giving you advice on what to do on first dates. How long should a first date be, where should it be, is eye contact good and how should you act if you are nervous! What is infla-dating and are experiences the new dinner date? The trio has all the details and shares their experiences! 

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