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Dec 2023
48m 38s

Guys Get Their Hearts Broken Too (Ask Hi...

Ilana Dunn
About this episode
I'm joined by a 25-year-old male listener from South Africa, who shares the painful dating experience he recently went through and how he's navigating his healing era. Then he answers your questions about what guys want to see on a dating app profile, what to do if you're a bad texter, whether or not men put you in a hookup vs date box, what his dealbreakers ... Show More
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