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Dec 2023
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453 - Your Regrets are Here to Help You

Multiamory | Pleasure Podcasts
About this episode
Today, we're talking about regret. Regret often gets a lot of negative feedback and a bad rap, often being called a useless negative emotion, but we're going to dive into some of the psychology research that indicates how regret can help us gain insight, motivation, and direction. We'll be discussing different types of regret, how regret can influence our re ... Show More
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