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Dec 2023
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3009: 10 Questions to Ask if You're in a...

Justin Malik
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Episode 3009:

Dr. Margaret Rutherford's article delves into the complexities of codependent relationships, guiding readers to discern their own relationship dynamics. She explores the transformation of codependency from its initial association with substance abuse enabling to a broader understanding of enmeshed partnerships. Through relatable examples and probing questions, Rutherford encourages self-reflection on personal roles within relationships, urging a shift towards healthy interdependence.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/10-questions-to-ask-if-youre-in-a-codependent-relationship/

Quotes to ponder:

"When you say, 'I’m codependent,' or, 'We’re codependent,' you’re often describing a loss of feeling responsible as individuals and/or that your lives are too tightly interwoven."

Episode references:

Codependent No More by Melody Beattie: Codependent No More

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