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Jul 2021
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Chapter 13: Interdependence

The Holistic Psychologist
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In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna talk about interdependence. In this episode, you’ll learn why we are wired for connection, why codependency is so common, and how we can create healthy relationships where we don’t abandon ourselves or our own needs.

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