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Dec 2023
39m 18s

breakup advice (part 1: feel the pain)

Emma Chamberlain
About this episode
breakups are almost an inevitable part of life. but despite how fucking awful they are, they can also be really transformative in a positive way. i've gone through a handful of breakups throughout my life, and i've learned a lot. so i'm going to be doing multiple episodes of breakup advice. this is episode one, where i'm going to be talking about the period ... Show More
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