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Dec 2023
1h 12m

Ep 50: Feminine testing & ‘The Nice Guy’

Meg and Jacob O'Neill
About this episode

This episode dives deep into why women feel the need to ‘test’ their men. And why trying to be a ‘nice guy’ doesn’t make a woman feel safe. 


Here’s some of what we chat about… 

  • Getting a puppy 
  • How our families are complete opposites 
  • What is Feminine testing & why do women do it? 
  • Why it’s incredibly sexy when a man is unwavering in his belief 
  • The power of playfulness in moments of Feminine testing 
  • Asking for respect vs. Commanding respect 
  • The risk of bringing play & lightness to these moments 
  • Stubbornness vs. Being unwavering as a man 
  • The Masculine art of holding a deeper level of consciousness 
  • You can be a powerful woman AND enjoy the experience of being led & deeply supported by your man 
  • Meg trying to tell Jacob what to wear. And why it NEVER works 
  • Why the NICE GUY isn’t a safe guy 
  • The Nice guy is trying to please his Mother & not upset his Father
  • And much more 


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