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Aug 2022
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The ULTIMATE ADVICE Every Woman NEEDS TO...

Impact Theory
About this episode

Maybe you’re a single mother, or a sister, aunt or best friend of a young man in your life trying to learn how to navigate the ropes of life and you’re wondering how you can be enough for him, and if you’re enough.

There’s been a debate about whether a woman can raise a strong man or not, but today’s guest puts this argument to rest once and for all. Devon Franklin released an audible exclusive called, It Takes a Woman, to pay tribute to the love, the sacrifice and the value he and his brothers received from the women that helped raise them.

Devon Franklin is an award winning film and TV producer, former Senior VP of Production at Columbia Pictures and current president and CEO of Franklin Entertainment. The way he connects to his emotions and pain with clarity of mind is inspiring.

In this episode we’re discussing how to be okay and how to find the line where sacrifice requires more self-care to be even better for the people you love the most. There are things that only a woman can do to make things alright, but it doesn’t have to come in the form of perfection and it doesn’t need to be to your own detriment.

“We never fully come to terms with the lost that cuts us to our soul” -Devon Franklin, It Takes a Woman

Check out Devon’s Audible Exclusive, It Takes A Woman: https://www.amazon.com/Audible-It-Takes-a-Woman/dp/B09X24B5B1


SHOW NOTES:

0:00 | Introduction to Devon Franklin

0:41 | It Takes A Woman’s Strength

6:29 | A Mother’s Perfect Imperfection

14:55 | Remedies for Childhood Trauma

18:44 | Self-Care, Sacrifice, & Healthy Boundaries

29:54 | Define Your Role & Identity

37:41 | Strong Men Raised By Women

44:47 | Recognize the Pain & How You Feel

50:50 | Love, Sex, & Relationships


Follow Devon:

Website: https://devonfranklin.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKqTVGX0BZGQ5xPX98ibb4g


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