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Dec 2023
35m 9s

How To Approach Different Styles of Nego...

Kwame Christian Esq., M.A.
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In this episode, Paul Bolaji, a lawyer at Skadden, discusses topics like, removing emotions from negotiations, confronting dishonesty in negotiations (when leaving the negotiation is not an option), and are there negotiation languages?


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