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Nov 2023
24m 48s

54: But Do You Like You?

Ashlie Molstad
About this episode

Most of us have gone our whole lives spending all of our attention on being whole the world has told us to be, filtering ourselves through the lease of “what are they thinking of me.”

 

We have a fear that we’re not good enough, that we don’t bring enough value, that we’re too much, that we’re annoying, that they won’t like us, etc… but like, SO WHAT? Maybe they don’t like you. Maybe you are too much for them, or not smart enough, or speak too confidently.

 

When you stop to think about it, its not a problem that you’re not everyone’s cup of tea. There’s not a soul on the planet who has everyone in their pocket. What matters is whether or not YOU LIKE YOU.

 

In todays episode we chat about how to continue to show up as a version yourself that you like, regardless of what “they” think. I dive into some thought work around accepting the possible rejection from the outside, as you double down on the acceptance from the inside.

 

I can’t wait for you to step into your power, own who you are, and let their opinions fall where they will. 

 

See you inside💥

 

Website: ashliemolstad.com

Email: ashlie.molstad@gmail.com

IG: @ashliemolstad

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