Are communication issues making your relationship feel hard? Most couples who arrive in couples counseling tell me that they want to improve communication in their relationships. The tricky part is knowing what's at the root of "communication issues," which can have so many causes, from people pleasing, to emotional reactivity, to defensiveness. Usually the ... Show More
Nov 2
Your Partner Isn't the Enemy. So Why Does Every Conversation Feel Like a War? | Love | E570
How does "Did you remember to do that?" turn into a screaming match, a slammed door, or three days of silence? One minute, everything's fine. The next, you're defending yourself like your life depends on it. And somehow, you're having the SAME fight you've had a hundred times bef ... Show More
1h 18m
Nov 2024
124. 3 Reasons You’re Having Conflicts, Not Peaceful Conversations
When couples start therapy they often tell me they want to communicate better, have tools for how to communicate, want the relationship to be more peaceful, and want a level of respect and kindness. Do you relate? I know I want a peaceful relationship with respect and kindness. W ... Show More
11m 54s
Dec 2021
GIVE More to Your Relationships with Effective Communication
Do you have trouble with interpersonal relationships? Have you been told you're a bit too harsh, critical, intense, or overbearing? This week, the Savvy Psychologist will help you focus on a communication skill designed to help you have more effective communication in your relati ... Show More
11m 53s