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Nov 2023
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S2 Ep4: Your People Pleasing is Making y...

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86% of listeners said they were a people pleaser - and Syd admits she is a recovering one. Today's episode talks about all the reasons why we people please & what we REALLY mean to say. How do we stop people pleasing? Why do we care so much about the perception of others over what our values/morals/capacity is? From mother in laws to friends; coworkers to people we don't know - we've all been guilty agreeing with something we don't believe & not standing up for ourselves to avoid conflict. F THE DRAMA & START PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST.
Syd talks why she was a people pleaser and 8 tips she implements to move away from being a constant people pleasure. Especially with the holiday's coming up, this is SO IMPORTANT. Your people pleasing habits are making you the bad guy & here is why!

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