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Apr 2023
57m 41s

Vol.83 都市人的朋友,越处越少

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🚶‍♀️人越长大,朋友好像就会越少。不管我们想不想,离开校园进入工作后,会非本意地和一些朋友渐行渐远。本期编辑部来聊聊都市社畜的友情衰减。你是一个会主动社交的人吗?什么时候会决定和一个人绝交?珍惜的朋友疏远了,如何修补关系?最后还有一些很可能没用的社交小技巧😋
👆收听指北👇
00:43  阿紫回应一下
03:01  你是I人还是E人?(MBTI)
13:25  都市社畜的友情尴尬期😓
22:19  交友逐渐搭子化
35:14  什么时候决定跟一个人绝交?
39:06  如何修补友情?
45:08  一些可能没用的社交技巧
 
🎤本期主播:荞木、Purple、思臻、林蓝
🎵BGM:《好想告诉你》主题曲、《Lemon(feat. SOLE,MINO)》Padi
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