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Nov 2023
27m 46s

EP 385: 9 Lessons Needed for Healing Avo...

DR. MORGAN ANDERSON
About this episode

Today’s episode is a must listen if you yourself have avoidant attachment style, or if you have ever dated someone with avoidant attachment 

Inside of this episode I unveil the 9 Lessons anyone with avoidant attachment needs to learn: 

  1. Rewire your brain to connect to yourself
  2. Learning how to express and set boundaries
  3. Love is safe: I can be close and emotionally safe 
  4. Choose Interdependence (not hyper independence) 
  5. Vulnerability is strength (not weakness) 
  6. Increase TRUST: I can depend on others, I can ask for what I need and it is heard 
  7. Notice criticism of others 
  8. Challenge your own inner Critic 
  9. Seek securely attached partners 

I know this episode will be helpful to so many of you. 


If you saw yourself in this list, and you know you’re ready for healing, I want to encourage you to take action today. 


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