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Nov 2023
16m 38s

Looking in the Mirror

MARK GREGSTON
About this episode

If you've ever experienced rejection from your teen, it can feel a lot like you've been "fired" as a parent. None of the baseball games or dance recitals you diligently took them to when they were little seem to matter anymore. But, as Mark discusses in today's show, this is a great time to take a look in the mirror and examine why your teen might be pulling away from you. He shares things for you to think about that'll help you understand yourself and your parenting style better, so don't miss out!

For more on reconnecting with your child, check out "When Your Teen is Struggling," at bit.ly/48Wg9hw

Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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